You drive me crazy…….
I hear a lot of people (especially women) saying how they want someone who is crazy about them. Just totally and completely crazy in love with them. While that is a good thing to want, if you think about it, for what it really is…..it’s very constricting.
Think about it.
You meet someone. You two appear to hit it off. Good conversation, late night text sessions, maybe even some really good sex sessions. And before you know it. BAM! They’re crazy about you. Blowing up your cell……wanting to spend more and more time with you. Would give you their right and left arm if you asked…..In their world the sun rises and sets on you and your smile. There’s only one problem.
You don’t feel the same.
Over time your feelings didn’t grow like theirs did. They didn’t move into the next, critical, level that is one step closer to: Happily Ever After. Now…..do you stay out of “obligation” because they are what some would consider a “good” catch, knowing that you don’t feel the same and there’s a pretty good chance that you won’t? Or do you let him/her go, take a chance and dive back in to the dating arena?
Sounds crazy right? Or is it????
Yes, having someone who’s crazy about you is nice, but think about this: what if you actually find that one person that is crazy about you aaaannnnd (peep this) you’re actually crazy about them too!I think we all know what it feels like to really be into someone. I mean REAAAALLLLLY into that person. To the point that when your phone rings or you get a text you get agitated if it’s not them. Where the sight of them makes butterflies take flight in your stomach. You know what I mean. That one person that can pull a smile out of you with just a look, or the wink of an eye. The person who’s touch alone makes your skin warm as if you’d just opened a preheated oven. And on the flip side, I think just about everyone knows what it feels like to be into someone and not get those feelings in return. Or worse yet, have your feelings dismissed or played with. No bueno. 😦 Now, imagine you have someone that feels that same way about you. 🙂
I mean just the sheer possibilities that can come from that relationship is off the charts! 🙂