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Aim for failure and you’ll always hit it. 

Happy Hump Day!!

Soooooo, I’ve been a way for awhile. Way longer than I should’ve been I will admit.

I do have a few things going on that I’m excited about!!

I’m finished up  with the follow up to BETWEEN FRIENDS. I can’t wait for you all to read it and hear what you think! All your favorites put in a lot of hard work to make this one come together, Phil, Trip, Idalis and even Lincoln!! Also, I’ve enrolled in Shonda Rhimes course on writing for T.V. and that has me over the moon! My dream has always been to be a part of a strong group of writers for a show or series! So I’ve been preparing myself to soak up all the knowledge and tips I possibly can during the course.

Stay tuned for snippets from my next book and I promise to keep in touch!!

My GPS was broken!

Okay so I’ve been gone for a minute……actually I’ve been gone for more like years. LOL! I’m sorry. Life sometimes just has a way of sending you on detours that you never expect or even see coming. I like to call it my life GPS and yes…..it was tripping! I have definitely been through a lot and experienced a lot but i’m hoping that it will enable me to bring something great to my writing. I love giving you guys the best of me and I truly believe everything happens for a reason and my GPS malfunction is definitely one! I look forward to bringing your the best that i have to give and learned. And I have learned a lot!!

Why Do Fools Fall In Love? No Seriously…….Why?

Now if you are like me….you now have Diana Ross jamming in your head right now, and you’re very welcome for that. 🙂 I was doing some soul searching lately and this has been on my mind heavy. I am single and up until recently been okay with that so I decided to enter the world of dating. This did two things: made me appreciate being single and realize that there are a bunch of fools out there and not a stitch of love in sight so Ms. Ross got some ‘splainin’ to do!

In a world of Catfishing and the ever present accusations of “thirst traps” online dating is all but ruled out of the search for Mr. or Miss Right and then when you add in all the people that have been burned by the aforementioned issues taking it out on everyone you really just have a bunch of people running around mentally and emotionally abusing each other; all in the name of ” finding love”. Now I know I am not that old but I do know that at one point dating was a REAL THING. No really……it was…….for real…………….stop laughing. It was real!!! A guy would call and ask a girl out to dinner and they would go and eat and laugh and talk and maybe even hold hands for a while. 🙂

Now it goes like this:

1. Can I have your number?

2. Text message (not a phone call): Him: Hey! It’s ________ you met from _________

3. You: OH! Hi how are you?

4. Him: I’m good. So when can I come through?

What………In……..All……….The………………………………….

Or something like this:

1. Him: Text message (usually at some unGodly hour): WYD?

2. You: Just relaxing

3. Him: *sends you string of pictures of himself you didn’t even ask for* Send me a pic.

*blank stare*

So is it safe to say that the days of dinner and a movie are dead and gone? There will be no more walks in the park or carriage rides through downtown? No flowers for no reason or surprise gifts just because it’s Tuesday? What’s even sadder than that is that a good bit of women are fine with this missing component. So a good MAJORITY of men don’t even consider it as an option when pursuing women anymore.

In my opinion technology killed romance. Yes….I said it! The only useful tool is Skype because of the number of long distance relationships due to travel, military, etc. But other than that, texting, Tweeting, Facebooking, etc took a knife and chopped romance up into little pieces and dumped it in love’s lap. And well you know love wasn’t having that mess so love turned tail and disappeared altogether. I hate to break it to you but love is more elusive than a bundle of #2 wet and wavy at the beauty supply store. You just can’t catch it and end up having to settle for some mess that you KNOW doesn’t look right with your hair type but hey……..at least you have something……right?

Has It Really Been That Long??

Wow, I was looking at the date of my last post and it has been a minute since I’ve been here. 😦 I’m sorry. Sometimes life gets in the way and it’s harder to push aside than we think.

Well you’ll be happy to know I am 3/4th’s  of the way finished with the next installment in my “Friends” series. I’m really excited about the work that Trip, Idalis and the rest of the crew are putting in on this one. There are some new faces/names and of course all your favorites. This one is definitely a heavy hitter not just for me but for the characters as well. I am pushing all of us to our limits and then demanding just a little bit more. 🙂

Thank you all for the great reviews and emails I’ve received in relation to the book and I see that Trip, Phil, Idalis and Lincoln’s Facebook pages are steadily growing. LOL! You guys are awesome!

Well I gotta run but I promise to get back here more often.

Until next time!

D*

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One of Atlanta’s Georgia Peach Authors Heads North!

Soul Pitt Media Presents

“MEET THE AUTHORS”

Saturday, April 28, 2012 @ Hill House Kaufmann Center

If you are a published author, editor, publisher or other literary professional and would like to participate or submit book promotional items email Bonita Penn at soulpitte2@gmail.com

Now in its 4th year, Soul Pitt’s

“Meet the Authors” event promises to be an intellectually stimulating networking affair!

Featuring authors, publishers and editors and to celebrate National Poetry Month there will be a group of talented Pittsburgh poets there to share their poetry. Light refreshments will be served.
Come and enjoy the readings and then stick around to meet authors and purchase their books.

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Soul Pitt Media’s 4th “Meet the Authors” EventDate: Saturday, April 28, 2012 Time: 3:00 PM until 6:00 PM – Tickets $15.00

Hill House Kaufmann Center

1825 Centre Avenue | Pittsburgh, PA 15219

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